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英文标题: | Romantic Love and Predestined Marriage: Comparing Two Ideal Types of Intimacy |
摘要: | 从亲密关系视角来认识婚姻生活,可以将“爱情”与“姻缘”视为两种不同的理想类型。本文首先从关系向度上讨论婚姻的复杂性,进而提出两种可比较的亲密关系模式:爱情婚姻与缘分婚姻。本文通过比较发现,前者具有个体内在性,比如重视吸引力、理想化、激情等,其延续机制在于加法;后者则重视关系外在性,比如命定、般配、说媒等,其维系机制在于做减法。立足于这两种模式之起点与延展,诸多亲密生活现象可以得到合理的解释,进而实现对此议题的知识建构。 |
英文摘要: | This paper regards “romantic love” and “predestined marriage” as two different ideal types. The author discusses marital relationship by exploring from the dimension of human relationship. After exploring the complexities and commonalities of marital relationships and the different clues that connect romantic love and predestined love with marriage, these two intimate relationship patterns are compared. Romantic love possesses individual internality. It places importance on attractiveness, idealization, passion, etc. Its mechanism for continuation lies in addition. Predestined marriage, on the other hand, places importance on externalities, e.g., compliance, matchmakers. Its mechanism for continuation lies in subtraction. Other differences can be observed when comparing each type’s logic from the dimension of human relationship. |
作者: | 翟学伟 |
作者单位: | 南京大学社会学院 |
期刊: | 社会学研究 |
年.期:页码 | 2017.2:128-149 |
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关键词: | 爱情;缘分;个体内在性;关系外在性;命;配 |
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